TMG (Triangle Munch Group) is a pansexual group open to the NC KINK, BDSM, and Leather Lifestyle Community; we host educational events & social munches to assist people on their journey into Kink, BDSM, and the Leather Lifestyle in North Carolina. We welcome all genders, sexual orientations, race, religion, marital status, etc.

We are located in Raleigh, NC but are open to anyone in NC, especially the surrounding Triangle Area: Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary, Apex, Garner, Holly Springs, Fuquay-Varina, Clayton, Knightdale, Wake Forest, and other local communities in central North Carolina.

We don't have any membership dues and only a few requirements - you have to be 18+ (have a valid picture ID to prove your age); be respectful /courteous; and don't bring any Drama or disruptive behavior to our events or onto our forums! We request that you do not bring drugs, alcohol, or weapons, including firearms to any TMG munch, since we use public venues for our events. We strive for a happy family feel. Our goal is to provide educational help and social resources to people within the Triangle community areas. We have munches each month and a Lending Library to accomplish our goals. TMG is not a hook-up or dating site, nor are we a swinger's group – not our mission.

We have three munches, every month, for educational and socialization purposes. Sorry, we don't host or sponsor play parties (we don't own an appropriate venue). We usually meet at a Raleigh Community Center on the first Saturday of each month for our educational events; we also schedule a Tuesday Topical dinner /discussions munch; and we meet every third Thursday for a dinner /social munch. Anyone can come to these events, as long as they meet our three requirements posted above. We look forward to seeing you at an event soon.


 First Saturday
  Demonstrations and Presentations

May 3, 2014

 TMG @ Wingnut Stables Pony Derby


June 7, 2014
Branding & Cell Popping
with Dragon Soul


July 12, 2014
Annual Picnic
@ Lake Crabtree, Beech Shelter


August 2, 2014
Fashion Show
@ Glen Eden


September 6, 2014
Scavenger Hunt
@ Cary IHOP


October 4, 2014


November 1, 2014
Warlord P & Warprize


December 6, 2014
Holiday Faire
@ Campbell Lodge


 Tuesday Topical
  Discussion on Various Topics

May 6, 2014
Non-Traditional Relationships (not poly)

June 10, 2014
Negotiation with Focus on Consent

July 8, 2014
Party Prep - play bag, clothes, codes & safe calls, other supplies

August 12, 2014
Kinky with Kids - Now what?

September 9, 2014
Kink Relationships - what you want to get out of it & how

October 7, 2014
You’ve been Outed - Damage Control

November 11, 2014
Public versus Private Play

December 9,  2014
Teachers, Mentors, & Protectors

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Us On

 Third Thursday
  Dinner and Chat

May 15, 2014
Golden Corral

June 19, 2014
Hibachi China Buffet

July 17, 2014
El Agave Mexican Grill

August 21, 2014
Golden Corral

September 18, 2014
Hibachi China Buffet

October 16, 2014
El Agave Mexican Grill

November 20, 2014
Golden Corral

December 18, 2014
Hibachi China Buffet


Common Munch Locations
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First Saturday Munch Address':
Presentations and Demonstrations

Glen Eden Pilot Park
1500 Glen Eden Dr., Raleigh, NC

Campbell Lodge at Durant Park

3237 Spottswood St., Raleigh, NC

Third Thursday Munch Address':
Dinner and Chat

El Agave Mexican Grill 

4818 NC Hwy 55, Durham, NC 27713

Golden Corral
3551 Grenelle St., Raleigh, NC

Hibachi China Buffet
2909 E Millbrook Rd,
Raleigh, NC 27616, just off Capitol Blvd. 

Tuesday Topical Address:
Discussion on Various Topics


1301 Kildaire Farm Rd., Cary, NC